Thursday 24 February 2011

Parenting experience in UK : the best part

just sharing from my own perspective, observation & experience -- of course kat mana2 pun ada pros and cons kan..so entry ni, me tulis psl advantages a.k.a the best part dululah yer

parenting ni merangkumi education system jugaklah, sbb itu pengaruh terbesar terhadap my kids kan..

apa yg best yer..
(1) my zharfan, who was 5 years old when we 1st arrived here, and this year masuk 6 thn dh ni...dpt advantage of languagelah--dh boleh converse fluently and with confidence--parenting experience for me--seronok me layan chatting dgn my boy in full english siap british accent  ni :) sbb dulu2 me pernah wish that my boy can speak in full english (masa dok Msia--me siap antar Qdees lagi tu)
and now my wish comes true..
my zharfan--peminat ben-10 ni--jenuh beli mcm2 ben-10 stuff hehe


lil Ariff -- sbb ari2 pun tgk tv--memang byk terms english yg dia guna--like help utk tolong, oh no, and benda2 sekeliling like car, fire engine, hot, ball, toys, etc --memang dia guna term english--yg kelakar, time ngigau ckp help help--:p me sengih sorang2 tgk ariff tu

my 2 lil heroes--ni masa pegi visit Notts castle ni :)

(2) public speaking--my zharfan memang dpt exposure and dilatih kat skool utk biasa dgn public speaking, like presentation--level 5 thn--bwk toys pegi skool, then present or citer dpn kwn2 sekelas psl toys tu, and kat umah, dia draw apa2 pun, then citer kat me apa yg dia draw tu..
me masa kecik, even time sek, agak lack skills ni, masuk uni baru terhegeh2 kena present (sbb me kan study law)--so bila my boy dh dpt this skills dari awal, rasa syukur sgt ..:)

(3) being independent, creative, helpful--cthnya, dia suka ckp , Mommy, can i help u,because i learnt it at school--dia nak tlg me msk kat dapur--me plak tak selesa sbb rasa serabut kalau my kids sibuk2 kat dapur :p

my zharfan panggil me as "mommy' kalau dia ckp in english..lil ariff pun kdg2 panggil me "mom' tak panggil mama sbb tgk kat tv kat guna term 'mom; heheh
and kalau weolls kuar jln2 kat shopping complex or kat mana2 yg ada mat salleh, zharfan memang akan ckp full english dgn me--kira mcm dia tukar channel hehe sbb kat umah, weolls guna both bahasa melayu and english

ada lagi some best part about being a mom kat UK ni ...next entry esok yer Insya Allah :)

note : entry ni for sharing and sbg kenangan utk me gak ni ;)


15 comments:

mizayusof said...

bestnya. kecik-kecik dah pandai speaking. sukalah tengok budak-budak kecik speaking :)

Unknown said...

itu lah kelebihannya ... ade pendedahan yg tak boleh ditukar ganti dgn wangringgit...

Rina Rahamat said...

uii..bagusnya..macam besh jer system pembelajaran kat sana..bwk toys g skul and present..kalau kat mesia ni rata² tadika lebih menekankan pd akademik semata²..i masukkan my daughter ke smart reader and i thougt the system is quite though..not so fun..so for extra i send her to art school to develop her confiedence and creativity..i still hope that one day i can study abroad..but the dreams day by day just gone with the wind (my english so teruk thats why i don't think that i can study oversea like u)..

Effi Rahmat said...

best.. bestnya kalau ada kesempatan begitu.. :)

Mariah Binti Abd Rahim said...

Alhamdulillah...jujurnya, saya memang nak education yang macam ni pada kids saya nanti (still single)..hehe

MamaYatie said...

bestnya..kecik2 lagi Zharfan dah cair speaking yer..dah environment mcm tu..kita jenuh la nak kena ajar sbb mak ayah nya pun tak brapa nak pandai..kekee

Azmiezas said...

bila i baca ur entry i pun rasa bestnya kalau anak i can speak English fluently,..coz kat sini kita kena hantar anak sana-sini just utk belajar english kan?..

zahidah dihaz said...

bestnya...


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eija_sweetmama said...

bagusnya zharfan pandai speak in full english.
mmg impian semua ibu bapa utk lihat anaknya fasih dalam 2 bahasa ni kan..malay n english..
lebih2 lagi skrg ni english mmg penting..

kalau ikutkan zaman skrg kat sini pun mmg bdk2 umur 3 thn ke atas dh pandai speak english ..gaya hidup skrg dh berubah..mak bapak mmg dh speak english kat umah..

eija nye english terabur..sbb tu x ckp english ngan zaquan..huhu..

ADLIL RAJIAH said...

wah wah!! seronok nya baca kisah kak suzi ngan anak2 ni.. i tumpang happy ye.. :)
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ardinihumaira said...

bestnye anak2 akak kecik2 dah merasa ke sana ;)

♫::: m[e]n!t! s[e]nja :::♫ said...

sgt bestnye...

mama tisya said...

bdk2 kalo dr kcik ajar english mmg bgs...diorang cpt blajar...zharfan panggil mommy ye instead of mama

Mama Zharfan said...

@Miza : yepp..me pun suka tgk :)

@kak yong : a'a--pengalaman tu priceless

@Rina Cik Betty : a'ah, sistem kat sini fun learning--i doakan u akan dpt further study kat sini soon--language boleh improve, yg penting confident :)

@Mama Mirza : yepp..betul

@Mariah : tak salah merancang utk ur kids in the future kan :)

@Mama Yatie : a'ah, sbb peers kan--dia dok speaking kat skool dgn teacher & kwn2 dia

@Azmiezas : yepp..i paham apa yg u rasa

@zahidah : tag noted--both me dh join awal2 hehehhe

@Eija : a'ah, can't agree more :)
ckp yg basic2 pun ok jer eija :)

@Jiji-Fify: sekadar sharing :) and me pun happy tgk my kids kan :)

@dini : tu la, rezeki kan

@meniti senja : syukur :)

@mama tisya : zharfan panggil me mommy bila dia ckp english heheh time ckp melayu, jd mama :)

tiefazatie said...

wah..sgt best la sis..lg2 british accent yee..ifa suka nie..hihi

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